As the father of a 9 -year -old child, I try to put it gently: what is in the absolute hell?! Anywhere on the way, our education and training as a parent failed us. We knew that lack of sleep and all weeping would be difficult to have a baby. We know that the toddler will give us a feeling of touching us and getting tired of bullying. We also know how to give ourselves a timetable for the emotional roller coaster of puberty in young years. But … no one told us what happens at the age of seven or eight.
A doctor on Instagram is raising eyebrows to teach parents a strict truth: We have been told about us before puberty, and there are changes behind the screen in physical chemistry that describe a lot.
There is a masterclass in the feelings of young children
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Dr. Carmen BurnerA doctor who specializes in hormones, puberty and periods, went to his Instagram trains to quit some knowledge.
“Wondering why your 7 or 8 -year -old is suddenly so temperamental? Well, puberty starts already before you think, the brain indicates to hide hormones to the hypothalamus and pituitary glands, which before any appearance of puberty is before.”
Normal knowledge tells us that when body odor, growth in growth, and hair growth increases, they expect a certain amount of adolescence of adolescents, but according to Brnener, a secret is called “Pre -Blautt” phase Adrenrich. This phase occurs when they move behind the curtains, which causes “mood, irritability, or even sudden energy or excitement to explode.”
Most of the parents of this age have seen him playing in real time, where there are half an hour’s hestal tears with minor mistakes or discomfort. “Early hormonal shifts have a huge impact on their emotions, so you may feel a new severity in new sensitivity or sudden mood swings or their emotions,” says Brnener.
Listen to this to break the science here:
It is not necessary to say that the disappointing parents of children aged seven to ten are in the comments that have been surprisingly seen. The boy and the girl’s mother was relieved to explain why the parents suddenly felt difficult, okay when it was “considered” it was easier:
“For our 7 -year -old son, all this is expelled. I was not ready.”
“My friend’s 9yo is starting to practice and I told him that it must start puberty. He said that he is crazy, he is very small and he is only small. Thank you for this video, I will probably not be crazy.”
“He has been a nightmare since the age of 8. He is about 12 years old”
“My about 8 -year -old girl has been a dream of a mood. It is always nice to know that it’s not my fault”
“So my 8 -year -old boy did not suddenly come to a devil?”
“Save me” a tired mother joking.
Parents of 7 and 8 -year -old children are in dire need of help.
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See If you have a pre -baby, we say, a handful, these are not just you. We are all going through it, and this is not your fault. This is not even your child’s fault. “They are not getting difficult for the purpose,” Barner reminds us.
Experts The best way to handle this volatility phase is that when the heat of the moment passes, there is sympathetic but strong conversation. When your eight -year -old child is in the middle of a hustical melting, it is of no use. Just be there for them and support them as feelings pass. Then, when things are calm, discuss the strategy how the next time you can handle both things better.
And don’t worry – the mood swings will not last forever. When your child is 16 or more, they should be dramatically settled. More eight years – you’ve got it!
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